Not everyone can be a winner in every battle of life! People who emerge as the real winners of life are the ones who wins the war, if not every battle! They fall, they regret, they cry and then out of no where they return, they rise, they rejoice, they fall again... and then in the same manner return again! Its all about coming back whenever You fall!
In a result oriented world, not every time does odds turns in your favor, some times you get less than what you expect, less than what you deserve, less than everyone around you! You lose! But to lose and to be a loser are two different things, the people who know this difference are the once who wins the long race of life!
When we fall, we constantly are titled as losers or failures by everyone around us, including our soul! We regret a lot as each one of us know why we fall or fail and we regret for not utilizing the time, for not listening to well wishers, for wasting the resources, for being careless and for thousands of other things. We curse ourself and the almighty! We remember the good old times when we were on a high and constantly miss those days! Analyzes that where had all that gone, we conclude that we have changed, we had been doing activities that we shouldn't have done ever, then we resolve to ourselves that we would stop all the things that had led us to failure or downfall and would do all that those people do who had succeeded!
Time passes by, we work hard, very very hard... still something miss! We are still not able to reach the same top where we belonged to! Then we curse god and loses our faith, sometimes breaks down to accept that we had lost it long back and can never get to our best again! Then moves back to old habits(that we had at the time when the failure struck us), rising up at the same time in the morning, listening to the same songs, hanging around with the same friends... at the very next hurdle of life, we discover what we are, the true identity of ourself! We define the dimensions of our success and failure again! And evaluate the positives in the negatives! Work hard on our strengths and fights with them rather than excessively pushing ourself to focus on weak points! We hit hard! We strike back! We smile again! We rise again! We return back to what we actually are and had always been! We come back! Not each one of us can come under the dimension and characteristics of the category of people defined by the word “We” in this article! One out of a thousand people like me and you are a part of this group! Those are the winners! We are the winners!
Life's not about winning and losing! Its about winning in the end, its about winning after losing, its about winning after losing, losing, losing and losing! Its about coming back! Its about realizing that when everything is gone “tomorrow is yet to come”. Its about believing in one's own self in the tough times! Its about collecting the broken pieces when we break and rearranging them in the proper shape or even better then before! Its about falling seven times and rising back the eighth time! :)