Monday, March 2, 2009

WINNING IS ALL ABOUT MAKING COMEBACKS

Not everyone can be a winner in every battle of life! People who emerge as the real winners of life are the ones who wins the war, if not every battle! They fall, they regret, they cry and then out of no where they return, they rise, they rejoice, they fall again... and then in the same manner return again! Its all about coming back whenever You fall!

In a result oriented world, not every time does odds turns in your favor, some times you get less than what you expect, less than what you deserve, less than everyone around you! You lose! But to lose and to be a loser are two different things, the people who know this difference are the once who wins the long race of life!

When we fall, we constantly are titled as losers or failures by everyone around us, including our soul! We regret a lot as each one of us know why we fall or fail and we regret for not utilizing the time, for not listening to well wishers, for wasting the resources, for being careless and for thousands of other things. We curse ourself and the almighty! We remember the good old times when we were on a high and constantly miss those days! Analyzes that where had all that gone, we conclude that we have changed, we had been doing activities that we shouldn't have done ever, then we resolve to ourselves that we would stop all the things that had led us to failure or downfall and would do all that those people do who had succeeded!






Time passes by, we work hard, very very hard... still something miss! We are still not able to reach the same top where we belonged to! Then we curse god and loses our faith, sometimes breaks down to accept that we had lost it long back and can never get to our best again! Then moves back to old habits(that we had at the time when the failure struck us), rising up at the same time in the morning, listening to the same songs, hanging around with the same friends... at the very next hurdle of life, we discover what we are, the true identity of ourself! We define the dimensions of our success and failure again! And evaluate the positives in the negatives! Work hard on our strengths and fights with them rather than excessively pushing ourself to focus on weak points! We hit hard! We strike back! We smile again! We rise again! We return back to what we actually are and had always been! We come back! Not each one of us can come under the dimension and characteristics of the category of people defined by the word “We” in this article! One out of a thousand people like me and you are a part of this group! Those are the winners! We are the winners!

Life's not about winning and losing! Its about winning in the end, its about winning after losing, its about winning after losing, losing, losing and losing! Its about coming back! Its about realizing that when everything is gone “tomorrow is yet to come”. Its about believing in one's own self in the tough times! Its about collecting the broken pieces when we break and rearranging them in the proper shape or even better then before! Its about falling seven times and rising back the eighth time! :)




31 comments:

PULKIT said...

Dear readers,
I personally rate myself very high on the ability of coming back on life, most of the times in my personal life... I am depressed! Still this Blog runs, my life runs... why? Because of all this That I just wrote! My heroes of life, be it Saurav Ganguly and Steve Waugh in cricket, or undertaker in wrestling or Rud van Nistelroy in football , had always been based on there ability to make comeback under against odds and bitter circumstances!
This article is dedicated to Faraaz bhaijaan for giving me the punch line from where I started writing this! And to my parents(mom's care and dad's wisdom) for being the back bone of my comebacks in life after every tough time!

With ocean of love and universe of blessings!
Ur best friend and most honest wellwisher
PULKIT
(pulkit.tiwari@gmail.com)

PULKIT said...

bearing a constant pain of yet another failure or an unexpected poor result in life, I focussed on certain precious people around me who needed the vision and motivation of this post more than I needed it! this one is a gift to my dear friends who need such a boost in this tough time, they too had been my constant inspiration while writing this for them and eventually for me too
my best friend IRISHA, dearest brother harshit, nikhil(all going through tough phases)... and little bro rishab(giving his boards currently)

neha said...

hey its very true...dat "after everythng is gone, tomorrow is yet to come"....its like "after evry night, there comes a bright day"..as i believe in!!!!
n yeah i guess dis article has brought me in a better motion of nt loosing hope...n believe in MYSELF!!!
keep writing such articles n soon dey will help lot of us in getting up!!!

salman said...

Now u r talking like a real engg. ;) we always think positive. See me....still waiting for my joining from accenture. :P

by the way bud...if its better to let deeds do the talking then words!

salman said...

and i remember i once saw many many pics of SRK in ur orkut album...I heard SRK once saying that with time he has learned that NOBODY wants to see ur sad face...not even ur friends...

Ekam said...

I'll also say the same think positive.Salman and I are sailing in the same boat :D

As you said, life is not about winning or loosing, it moves on. Sometimes there are bad phases and sometimes good. Just stay positive.

God bless you :)

PULKIT said...

@ neha - I am glad to have effected your soul with my words, believe me dear, thats the whole purpose of writing articles like this on my page! (read my blog title info... changing the world by not getting change by it)
:)

PULKIT said...

@ salman sir - thanks for the visit again sir! U being my mentor had always been there to tell me this advice time and again, that everyone in this world is alone... never disclose your sadness... no one bothers! But the writer in me lives in a fantasy land, infact the real human being within me too lives in dreams...I know that ur elder to me,have seen more world and will always advice me the right thing, infact its not just you! everyone had told me this time and again... but somethings in life cant change too quickly! I'll definately try to follow you, but whensoever I try to become practical too much there are some people who tell me the individuality of mine from which emotional aspect is unseprable! still I'll try for sure

PULKIT said...

@ ekam - thanks for the visit again sis! glad to see u back on my page again! tc and god bless,

Anonymous said...

hey pulkit, good blog i really liked it...

Parikshit said...

hey pulkit,

good blog i liked it really

nivedita gangay said...

fighting back the odds ... emerging every time u hv been hit-hard ... are all synonimus to "NEVER SAY DIE" spirit.
it may sound like a "SAME OLD N BORING MORAL BOOSTING DOSAGE"..but hey ! dat's wot v call LIVING a life .
SUCCESS -whether small or huge- cannot be tasted unless one has suffered failures.

very well depicted are these ideas by PULKIT in his new narration.
i really appriciate ur thirst of understanding the human pshychy which has brought u this far...m really looking forward to see more of PULKIT .
all the best.

Anonymous said...

heyy pulkit it wz a much needed post specially after xam results:D :D.......n it will maintain its importance uptill board results :D ....jokes apart...yar it is an awsooommmee post..but stands lower than LP one[crt'c partiality]......
Love u
faraz.

Harshit said...

Nvr talk defeat. Using words like hope, belief, faith, victory, has seriously given a new thnkin 2 me. !

Thnx awfully Sir !

ur constant support will 4 sure make me come outta dis =. 4 sure !

Luv u !

tk cr alwayz !

PULKIT said...

@ faraaz sir- thanks for the appreciation sir and the inspiration always! LP(???), more of it to come on 19goes20 later sometime... patience has its own rewards :P

@ parikshit - thanks for the visit, sir! hope to see u back here in future

PULKIT said...

@ nivedita mam - when one has supporters and wellwishers like u as elders, then its so easy to generate optimism from life u see... :) thanks for the praise! I'm honoured again mam! thanks a lot... ur comment has given me strength to write a philosphical motivational post again sometime in near future!

PULKIT said...

@ everyone - so many people have reported to me that comments are not getting post on this page!
well for all those here is a tip -
when u write a comment in this box and then after finishing writing it, the next step is to select the profile... maximum people select google account and others select the option anonymous...
the final step is to click on the tab "Post Comment"{the left button below}... then when it gets jammed in the mid way, due to congession in the blogger network, a certain message is shown in "red colour", that says "TOUR REQUEST COULD NOT BE PROCESSED AT THIS MOMENT.TRY LATER"...

HERE WHAT U HAVE TO DO IS...
immediately click on the button "Post comment" again... In the second time it will surely get posted and u will get the message "Your comment was published"

coming again after few minutes can repeat the error message again so do it then and there immediately ...
else orkut and my gmail account are always active for suggestions!

regards
PULKIT

nikit said...

hey pulkit sorry 4 bein late dis time ..buh u kno vistin n readin dis has relly mad me enthu abt sumthin ....n thankz abt dat ...positivness iz wat u potray ....n datz watz actlly tells abt u...
god bles ya bro ..

paramveer said...

"We strike back! We smile again! We rise again!"

i face the badly bad situations many time.......problems all around...........betrayed by life......abandoned by faith and so called "FRIENDS".......bt as usual 007 never dies........he lives to"DIE ANOTHER DAY"(1 OF MY FAV MOVIE)

and usual i m fully agree with Salman sir and ekam.....:)

PARAM
http://bveer.blogspot.com/

rishabh said...

♥"WINNING IS ALL ABOUT MAKING COMEBACKS"
"Life's not about winning and losing! Its about winning in the end"♥


Really ♥bhiya♥ u have writeen a cheer up blog ..!
by writing this blog You really cheer-d me up for my boards exam..because its all about winnin in.last.and with proud.
Really good and awesome blog ♥bhiya♥


take care
luv you
Rishabh Verma♥

PULKIT said...

@ nikit - thanks for the visit again bro! I am glad that I had been able to stand to ur expectations again! god bless u

@ rishab - thanks sweetu for the comments! keep working hard, my prayers are always wth u

PULKIT said...

@ param - I am so glad to see u here again!
:) love and regards , bro! god bless! peace!

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Shalki Sharma said...

Courage does not always roar...Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow...

Very well written.I am feeling very low these days because things are not at all going the way I want them to be.This article has given me enough enthusiasm to start again.
Thanks a lot pulkit.
May God bless you!

PULKIT said...

@ shalki - I was waiting u at my page dear! tc of urself! always there for u dear

ROHIT GOEL said...

this article is truely motivational. it not only motivates me to keep trying depite of my unsuccess in various intiatives but also inspires me to face the peers and the criticism...



with such positiveness , you can never lose friend...
i hope you continue to keep the spirits high...

Lastly, this is one of the best articles that i have ever come across...

wish you all the success friend......

PULKIT said...

@ rohit - thanks from the bottomost point of my heart for such a heart warming response brother! Ur words are very encouraging for me as always! thanks a lot

ajay rai said...

all the post of urs are really very nice, i like it.

Haiku poetry

Choco said...

NOw I know why your blog has 26 followers and this post has 28 comments. Well 29 including mine:)

I belong to the "we" in your article. There I've said it! I'm mostly cheerful but my mind raves with these very thoughts.

Thank you for this post!

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You can post there too. The reason I'm telling you Pulkit about it is because for some reason poems rule the roost there!

Check out some time :)

Cheers.

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