Saturday, October 25, 2008

THE PERFECTIONS IN AN IMPERFECT LIFE!


There is a host of people that would say that life has not turned out to be the way they had planned it to be. They had never imagined it to be much more closer to hell than it is to heaven. Approximately 7 out of every 10 thinks this way, unfortunately i am one of them. There were dreams that never got fulfilled, happinesses that never came to us when we expected them the most, unpredictable failures, destiny's tricks when you at times have crossed all counts of your hardworking nights yet you haven't got success which you always striven for. Are you the most unhappy soul on the planet? Are things actually that worst? Will you never ever get the same happinesses again that perhaps you have lost somewhere down the line?


Sitting back and analyzing the times gone by can make you feel that it will never be the same, life was perhaps been better in the past and its more than worst in the time passing by. But wait a minute, have you ever been to a hospital lately? No! Then perhaps its time for you to plan a visit there and see the people crying in grief cos of the departure of a loved one, its perhaps time for you to visit an old age home where 60-70's old age people are starving for a drop of love, perhaps its time for you to visit an orphanage center where you would see tender innocence growing too quickly into bitter realities of life, perhaps its time for you to visit the home of someone who has just lost its only child in a bomb blast when he had no political agendas attached to his daily working life but got thrashed into 100 pieces by a bomb planted nearby, visit the home of someone who has just gone through greatest shocks of life, perhaps a sports person who has just become handicapped in an accident where he suffered due to carelessness of the approaching vehicle. By doing so you would feel how much selfish you had been in asking from almighty a better life, how much stupid you had been in ex aggregating your minor problems at times of a failure in an exam or a broken relationship, wasting your precious tears and foolishly not taking lessons from the mistakes committed by you and only you.


Nobody ever said that life will be easy, nobody ever said that its a piece of cake to achieve what you want from life, all that was known was that it will have a great deal of emotions and feelings and places and problems and cherishing moments and tears and everything else to offer, and it certainly have done that. Winning every battle is not a necessity to win a war, analyze life in all its bitter moments and you would realize that it haven't been that bad lately and you had not been the poorest soul on earth!

Its been a while and i still remember that the basic rule of life had been “winners never quit and quitters never win”, enjoyment of a challenging life is the best way to live it!


So the very next time when you curse life for losing your girlfriend or boyfriend or for not getting selected in a reality show audition or for not getting the highest marks in the test then please check yourself cos you have totally misjudged the extent of its adversities and had been a fool in your approach towards it! Yes, harsh but true if someone would ever ask me to narrate the meaning of life then i would say “Life is to Move on, Life is to expect less and give more, Life is to smile when every other individual around you would have shed tears in the same place, Life is to love and to love yourself, Life is to be patient towards yourself, Life is to accept defeat but not accept oneself as a loser, Life is to understand all these things and ultimately Life is to see the perfections in imperfections”


PULKIT


16 comments:

Shalki Sharma said...

So true!!!
Thats the spirit of life to move on and on...Try and try till you succeed...
Great piece of writing...
I hope it will inspire others too as it has inspired me...
Keep it up pulkit!

paramveersaini said...

quitters never win............
i was also going to write on the same theme......i m 100percent agree with u........
life is all about competing with ourselves coz everyone is exclusively made by God.

appreciations

DIVYA said...

I owe u a lot Sweets!! for gvng my lyff a Good turnup!! :) :) thats the most simply i cn express my views ..am alwezz spellbound by ur wrk!! Thnxx for evr for all support u give me!! love u loads

TJ said...

u knw bro that was the most sensible thing i'v read in a long time....i have today become a big fan of u and ur ideas....inspired by ur words i find myself waking up to a new dawn

kemy said...

its awesome..
how cud u b so positive..i m surprisd.. :) :) vry wl wrttn..
truly said, how much selfish v hd been in askng 4rm almighty a better life..
it jus md me rmbr d wrds: “O god frgv me wen I whine,
I m blessed indeed the world is mine..”..
Gud wrk!! Keep it up..

PULKIT said...

@ shalki! i am glad that my writings inspired you!
@ param! thanks for the appreciation
@ divya! i am always there for u!
@ TJ! i am glad to hear your response!
@ kemy! thanks.

Anonymous said...

Quite true....but i think pain is pain whether its little or big kinda...no can stop his/her tears...but hey i don't hate it...its a dessert in my life..!!!.....Kammu

Ekam said...

beautiful article pulkit...
whenever you curse you life for having problems, just think of somebody else and you'll realize that you are not the only one.. everybody has his/her share of problems.. this is called life :)

Anonymous said...

very true friend!
life is full of twists and turns..
its a struggle...
nd the best way 2 live it is to take it as a challenge.
and yes findng perfctns in an imprfct lyf!
riya.

ROHIT GOEL said...

rightly said bro..... it's a natural tendency within every human to think this way...
topics that take up in ur blogs are really awesome.

keep posting...
rohit

Femin Susan said...

Your wordings are so powerful. Keep it up. How could you be so positive...

nikit said...

hey pulkit ..u kno wat wid evry piec of word u r becumin betr n betr ..
evry singl word in dis writ up iz so v tru dat u mak each n evry readr question onslf ...
so hera i m cheerin 4 a wonderful lif ..
god blss ya buudy ..

neha dhamija said...

Nice to read the article..........was getting your mails from a long time but never got time to read.but whatever you hv written is totally true.........there r so many probs in world.n we are lucky that we have been bestowed with so many good things.......but even then we keep on creeping every now n then. It all depends from person to person..depends on the way you look around..there are so many nice things in life.......happiness is always inside you..i think i shud stop commenting now or this vl look like m not commenting but posting on ur blog

neha dhamija said...

thanks pulkit and logi-call for ur kind appreciation......
Hey Pulkit......There is nothing like that happening in my life.but love is a very broad term.that kind of deep love can happen between friends as well

neha dhamija said...

One thing i forget to say...i hv learnt to see the perfections in imperfections..i used to think i m a loser..u can say some times in life when you feel alone n depressed..not worth anything..but all this is simply rubbish.n i feel funny that i used to think that way...Hv just realized my perfectons

Anonymous said...

Though failures are a part of everyone's life including myself,I am not the one who gets disappointed by them.I believe that success is not a matter of destiny but is achieved only by hardwork.Man can create his own destiny by his hardwork and for that he should have a very strong personality to face bravely even the most adverse circumstances.Though sometimes there are depressing moments in my life but I take no time to recover from such gloomy situations.I constantly strive to achieve what I desire and expect all to do the same.
Saurabh