THE PERFECTIONS IN AN IMPERFECT LIFE!

There is a host of people that would say that life has not turned out to be the way they had planned it to be. They had never imagined it to be much more closer to hell than it is to heaven. Approximately 7 out of every 10 thinks this way, unfortunately i am one of them. There were dreams that never got fulfilled, happinesses that never came to us when we expected them the most, unpredictable failures, destiny's tricks when you at times have crossed all counts of your hardworking nights yet you haven't got success which you always striven for. Are you the most unhappy soul on the planet? Are things actually that worst? Will you never ever get the same happinesses again that perhaps you have lost somewhere down the line?

Sitting back and analyzing the times gone by can make you feel that it will never be the same, life was perhaps been better in the past and its more than worst in the time passing by. But wait a minute, have you ever been to a hospital lately? No! Then perhaps its time for you to plan a visit there and see the people crying in grief cos of the departure of a loved one, its perhaps time for you to visit an old age home where 60-70's old age people are starving for a drop of love, perhaps its time for you to visit an orphanage center where you would see tender innocence growing too quickly into bitter realities of life, perhaps its time for you to visit the home of someone who has just lost its only child in a bomb blast when he had no political agendas attached to his daily working life but got thrashed into 100 pieces by a bomb planted nearby, visit the home of someone who has just gone through greatest shocks of life, perhaps a sports person who has just become handicapped in an accident where he suffered due to carelessness of the approaching vehicle. By doing so you would feel how much selfish you had been in asking from almighty a better life, how much stupid you had been in ex aggregating your minor problems at times of a failure in an exam or a broken relationship, wasting your precious tears and foolishly not taking lessons from the mistakes committed by you and only you.

Nobody ever said that life will be easy, nobody ever said that its a piece of cake to achieve what you want from life, all that was known was that it will have a great deal of emotions and feelings and places and problems and cherishing moments and tears and everything else to offer, and it certainly have done that. Winning every battle is not a necessity to win a war, analyze life in all its bitter moments and you would realize that it haven't been that bad lately and you had not been the poorest soul on earth!

Its been a while and i still remember that the basic rule of life had been “winners never quit and quitters never win”, enjoyment of a challenging life is the best way to live it!

So the very next time when you curse life for losing your girlfriend or boyfriend or for not getting selected in a reality show audition or for not getting the highest marks in the test then please check yourself cos you have totally misjudged the extent of its adversities and had been a fool in your approach towards it! Yes, harsh but true if someone would ever ask me to narrate the meaning of life then i would say “Life is to Move on, Life is to expect less and give more, Life is to smile when every other individual around you would have shed tears in the same place, Life is to love and to love yourself, Life is to be patient towards yourself, Life is to accept defeat but not accept oneself as a loser, Life is to understand all these things and ultimately Life is to see the perfections in imperfections”

PULKIT

AUTHOR SPEAKS!

I have been experimenting a lot here, in terms of the topics and subjects on which i write here.

Amongst the posts till now , there has been a song review, a pic review, a moral boosting philosophical article and now a post related to a political issue, people can call it the lack of consistency but at the age of 19, i guess love and romance is not the only thing that defines me or that prevails in my thoughts. This time i have reopened ( mindset of a human bomb{the last article post} from my previous blog at blogspot ) the issue of terrorism and not the political aspect but again the analysis of mind and psychology! Hope you are liking my work here.

Variety is the cream of life's cake! And exploration of thoughts is what i try to focus on, the theme of this blog if asked to me can be called “life”, thats the only word which sums up each of us, which is a part of our imagination, creativity and its source too!

Please keep providing me feedback if you come here! I am taking a break from new posts in terms of articles,till then keep up your feedback here at the present posts. I will be back in the last week of this month with new articles but a pic review is surely in the pipeline meanwhile.

Regards!

with ocean of love and universe of blessings,
PULKIT
(the deter)

TERRORISM IS NOT JIHAD

Do you exactly know what “Jihad” means? War? No! I am sure you have come across this word! Specially when every other day some new group claims themselves as the new carriers of the flame of jihad. The Indian “mujahidin” being the latest. I am neither a Muslim nor i claim to know more of Muslim religion than any of Muslims in the world but i certainly want to have a word with the people who bomb cities and claims themselves as true Muslims.

Jihad does not mean war in Quran as there are other words for it like qitab and harb. It means to strive and to strive for betterment of society,to spread goodness(maruf) and contain evil(munkar).
the word jihad occurs in Quran 41 times though not a single verse uses it in sense of war. there are four most fundamental values in Quran i.e justice(adl),benevolence(ihsan),compassion(rahmah) and wisdom(hikmah).
Thus Muslims abiding Quran are bound to practice them. Jihad is not even obligatory in Islamic jurisprudence. The words “compassion” and “mercy” occur in Quran 335 times as against 41 for jihad.
Quran uses three words for justice “adl, qist and hakama”, these three occur 244 times in Quran. To seek revenge is human weakness,not strength. hence any act of terror acts in any religion is neither justifies nor explainable, not even in the sacred religion of Muslims, a devout Muslim tends to forgive like Allah who forgives his servants if they sincerely repent.
In Shariat law jihad can be declared by state only or those empowered by it. Terror attacks on the other hand are planned and executed by a few individuals,unrepresentative of any state or state institution. So there attacks cannot be legitimate by any Islamic or shariah law.

Also according to jihad in Islamic laws, no non-combat can be attacked like women, children and old persons. The terrorists are described by media as jihadis. This is a gross misuse of the word as there is no word like jihadis in Arabic language. It is in fact “mujahid”-one who devotes oneself to a good cause like fighting against social evils.

The Quran advices Muslims”and cast not yourselves to destruction with your own hands and do good(to others).surely Allah loves the doers of good” this advice of Quran not to throw oneself to destruction with one's own hand is important and relevant even today. What did 9/11 attacks result in? Did Al-Qaeda not invite great disaster to entire Islamic world,especially in Afghanistan and Iraq?

Various verses quoted to justify jihad are generally taken in literal sense and ignore the value system of Quran. It is a humble request of mine to all youths be it Muslims, Hindus or any other individuals not to be engrossed by any intimate and aggressive saying that try to justify the terror activities, cos its all bullshit! Moreover Seventh century Arabic cannot be compared to conditions in the contemporary world.
Love live peace! Think practically and there wont be any violence i am sure!

TERI YAADEIN, ONE OF MY ALL TIME FAVORITE MELODY

TERI YAADEIN

This is one of my all time favorite track and no matter how many times i hear it, i keep bouncing back to feel the essence of melody that lies in it once in a while.

The series originally aired in India on SAB TV from April 30, 2007, to January 17, 2008. Beginning June 11, 2007, the series was re telecast on sister network Sony Entertainment Television. Although the show was dropped from SET’s line-up in India within months, the series was telecasted until its completion on SET’s international feed, Sony Entertainment Television Asia, which aired the concluding episode of the series on January 31, 2008.

I don't watch television regularly but managed to watch selected episodes of a television serial called “LOVE STORY”. It used to come on SAB TV on mondays to thursdays at 9 pm, usually the time when i have my dinner. It was based on the outline of a college campus repeated love story with similar previously heard theme but the presentation was totally different in comparison to any other television show. The best part of the serial was undoubtedly its songs and music score.

The genre of songs was basically rock. Lyrically oriented soft metal based rock emotional sing along songs were the highlight of this mini series. Many songs of this ranging from the title track “dil karta hai naadaniyan” faboulously sung by rana majumdar to the lyrical beauty “mujhse milne ke woh karta tha bahane kitne” touched the deepest chords of my heart, but this particular song “teri yaadein” had made me addicted to itself. The credits showed the band “cactus” for the whole music of the serial but unfortunately and most shockingly this particular track is a part of plagiarism, sung by a Pakistani band called IMIK, the song was a part of their first album Zamana Badlay Ga - released in 2005. The song was titled as Piya.

""teri yaadein,mulaakaatein,wo raatein aur baatein
teri saansein,wo baahein ab mujhko yaad aayein
tere bina mera jeeya sataaye,kyun piya yaadon ne teri mujhpe ye jaado kiya re""

""teri saansein,wo baahein ab mujhko yaad aayein
wo adaaon ki ghataayein,mere dil ko chu jaayein
pyaari ye duniya saari,maine hai tujhpe waari,dil ne--mere dil ne tujhse,yaari ye baazi hari""

MERE KHAYALON MEIN--KHAYALON MEIN BAS TUM
MERI NIGAHON MEIN--NIGHAON MEIN BAS TUM

WAAPAS AA JAAO....MERE PAAS TUM SAADAA---WAAPAS AA JAAO.

The lyrics of the song and its composition captures both the pain of separation and the jubilation of the good times spent together in the same monotone! Awesome i must say is the way it is being sung in all its versions. The initial picturization of the song, i.e the video added as “teri yaadein(male version) is my favourite and no other such footage ever telecasted on indian television makes me feel the way it does. :)

If you havent heard the song yet, then i would strongly recommend you to hear it using the links to download in as given below.

http://www.love104.org/love-story-teri-yaadein.html

http://www.bollymp3.co.in/other-songs/love-story-sab-tv-tv-serial

http://dillmillgayye.blog.co.in/love-story-sab-tv/

I MISSED YOU SO MUCH!

Animated pictures have always been a part of my extreme fondness. Don't know when, where and how i fell in love with them. The romantic pictures like these, popularly referred on net as “anime pics” defines the fantasies of mine in terms of compassion and romance.

They are my inspiration whenever i write something based on lines of love and poetries related to it.

PIC REVIEW

“Thank you for teaching me what is right and what is wrong!
For in my heart I always knew you were the one.

If someday you feel the same way, I will never be astray.
For in my heart you will never fade away.

-melanie “

(this might be the feeling of girl in the pic)

This particular picture bears an animated couple where the gal in the photo is bent and she lies on the chest of the boy.

Particular features in this photograph are noticeable to me. The girl is lying on the boy sideways and that can be considered a sign of differences between them or somewhat a distance between them. Eyes of both the individuals on the pic are closed and that shows utter comfort and peace of mind, beautiful! I must say. Long hair of gal is a turn on and that too open is a tender manner and those long hairs lie there as unnoticeable to her as her own self. A slight hand of the boy on her head shows the boys acknowledgment that he is there for her and the left hand of girl clinging his shirt and the right hand simultaneously taking a rest mode dependent state on him chest shows how much she needs him. Cute couple and honest expression i must say. Moreover i guess i noticed a lot, :) beauty i must say lies in the eye of the beholder.

Cheers and god bless.
Ocean of love and universe of blessings.

PULKIT

NEVER LOSE YOUR UNIQUENESS

Power of USP!

Do u know what a USP is? The full form of USP is unique selling point. It is something that is within us and is not present in anyone else. Sometimes we are able to notice it and most of the times we miss it. You are what you are, be it make or female, tall or short heighten, dark or fair, anything and everything within you is your USP. A person can fail in an exam, can get rejection in love or even fail in great tasks of life, yet that person remains unique. There is something in him or her that is not just missing in others but will never be in them. That is what makes him or her an individual.

Sadly most of us chase life rather than waiting for favorable events to occur to us. We question ourselves for our failures rather than learning from where we go wrong. We follow the trend, our choices is rather the trend of the time. I ask why? People can laugh at your hair cut, your physical built or your academic or professional performance but there is something that you must never forget thats the USP! Something in you that will never be in anyone else. The right way of spelling a word, the wrong way of pronouncing something, the great singing ability, the worst singing voice or be it anything positive or negative, there are a few characteristics in you that defines you. All those manners and ways are your signature, your style, your own charisma, your own mark. Leave your own mark on things and people you come across rather than being marked by them.

I mean its good to adopt positives from things and people around us but chasing things must have a line. Most of us lose our USP's! in the teenage where we are drawn to new exposures and in the name of coolness or non coolness or anything else we become something else, a great advantage within us which might have been our edge in winning life is sadly lost at that point. Let not yourself be a chaser of brands,trends and names in life , be a brand, be a trend, be a name.

PULKIT
(the deter)

HERE I GO again!

well. returning to blogger after a long gap of two months. i will still be writing for my old blog at blogspot i.e pulkit-analytically-yours.blogspot.com once in a while, whenever i get motivated to write for miscellaenous issues, for which i use to express myself there. had been occupied with some personel work lately but hopefully i am back to blogging again, in the meanwhile i will continue to write for thesenorita.com for salman which is a great friend of mine and readers looking for a great relation based non vulgar and classy website are most welcome to browse this website thesenorita.com (discovering her).
i hope to write one full length artcle and one pic or poem review a week here and if u tune in with my wavelength of thinking or evenif u completely disagree with what i write, your compliments or crticisms in the form of comments.

regards
PULKIT